Their unique journeys show the importance of father figures, the characteristics that make them exceptional role models, and how both single and married fathers can make a lasting impact as foster parents.
Jermaine's journey as a single foster father is a testament to the extraordinary impact one person can have on a child's life. Motivated by witnessing his friends' experiences with adoption, surrogacy, and foster care, Jermaine was inspired to open his heart and home to a child in need. His unwavering passion and nurturing nature propelled him forward on this transformative path.
“It showed me that I can also do that and there are a lot of kids out there that need love, care, and special attentions and guidance.”
Jermaine welcomed his first placement with overwhelming joy and commitment. He recognized the weight of his responsibility and strived to give his all, ensuring the child in his care received not just temporary shelter, but also a loving and supportive environment.
“I just wanted to give it 200%. And I’m someone that is full of love and a nurturer and someone that loves to give back. And I just wanted to make sure that I did a wonderful job and make sure I supplied this lovely child with a lovely home, shelter, culture, and an overall loving experience that they would take with them for a lifetime.”
Through his dedication, Jermaine demonstrated that a single father can be a powerful role model, offering guidance, affection, and the tools for a brighter future.
The Sanchez family, led by Derrick and his partner Tami, presents a beautiful example of how a married couple can make a profound difference in the lives of foster children. Recognized as the Resource Family of the Year in 2021, their commitment to fostering and raising their own son while providing a nurturing home for four boys is truly inspiring.
Derrick's role as a stay-at-home father highlights the positive influence a father figure can have on child development. He embodies healthy masculinity, breaking down the barriers of violence and anger that some foster children may have experienced in the past. By demonstrating love, emotional expression, and acts of service, Derrick shows that strength lies in compassion, respect, and disciplined care. Together, he and Tami create a balanced partnership that exemplifies respect, compassion, and love—an environment where foster children can thrive.
Father figures in foster care play a crucial role in shaping children's lives, fostering healthy attachments, and empowering them to navigate relationships with confidence and resilience. By offering love, guidance, and a stable presence, they create a nurturing environment that encourages exploration, critical thinking, and emotional growth.
Research consistently shows that children who have positive male role models experience better academic, social, and emotional outcomes. They are less likely to encounter long-term negative effects such as poverty, school dropout, depression, or behavioral issues. Father figures, like Jermaine and Derrick, instill a sense of security and provide children with a new perspective on what it means to love and be loved.
Jermaine and Derrick exemplify the qualities that make both exceptional foster parents and positive male role models by embracing the following principles:
Jermaine had this advice to offer anyone considering becoming a foster parent.
“The most challenging part about being a resource parent so far is just making sure you're doing everything correctly. That has been my experience, just getting out of your own way. All you can do is just offer this lovely child a welcoming, loving home, and do it to the fullest. And get out of your own head. Once you do that, you are going to knock it out of the park.”
Every child deserves a positive male role model who can guide them toward a brighter future. Jermaine, as a single foster father, and Derrick, as part of the Sanchez family, embody the qualities of exceptional foster parents and loving father figures. Through their dedication, love, and commitment, they demonstrate that both single fathers and married couples have the power to transform lives.
If you feel inspired to make a difference and become a foster parent, we encourage you to learn more about the process by downloading our free ebook below.